My husband does nothing but play games and it drives me crazy. He has actually played 12 hrs in one setting before. Please tell me am I crazy or do other men do this?
Only when we dont have any hobbies, or are mentally upset with something and trying to escape the world.
i play all the time too.
mostly in my free time, but i have a lot of it.
Most men do this. Play with him and/or get more involved in the game than he does. He won%26#039;t play as much then. That%26#039;s what happend to me anyway.
i would say 95% or men do this. Computers are great and there are so many things to play. Don%26#039;t shout at the men, if you want it to stop, see the manufacturers
12 hours, is a bit much, I play about 6 hours a night, as my family all watch terrible tv shows, like home and away, neighbour etc etc. so I play games instead!
I was once a gaming addict spending 10 hours a day on WoW. It was because immersing myself in the games helped me escape my real life. But that was years ago and now I%26#039;m happy to say I%26#039;m not an addict. I play console games almost everyday but for a maximum of an hour if I have absolutely nothing to do. If I have other plans I ignore my games. It%26#039;s just a time filler when I%26#039;m bored.
So now that you know my situation, you have to understand that your husband is trying to escape reality. It doesn%26#039;t mean that his life sucks it just means he prefers his virtual life. Only way to get rid of his addiction is to go cold turkey to help him realize that the real world is much better.
Gaming is like TV nowadays, it%26#039;s very common. But that hours that he%26#039;s playing suggests he has a problem. Don%26#039;t let your kids suffer, get help on this issue.
Sorry to break the men only rule but-
Play along with him and get the kids involved! Your hubby sounds like one of my best friends. He hates watching TV so usually has some sort of game going on. Drives his wife crazy too ^_^ so don%26#039;t feel bad. He really loves to play multiplayer games with his 2 older kids- they spend most of thier free time together gaming. Great way to connect with the kiddies.
My hubby is a gamer- he rarely watches tv or movies, but it%26#039;s okay I am too. 12 hour sessions is not uncommon for him, me, or us. I have to say I think it is a guy thing. My brothers- although not as often can put in a 12 hour session too. Get used to it- the harder you press for him to stop or cutback, the less likely he is to do so.
Well yes other men do this , i%26#039;m one of them , my result is he%26#039;s bored with u or his life style,, if u find smething else for him to do , like satisfaction, of both selves u might find ur answer,, trust me there%26#039;s tooo much empty spae between uzzzz!!!! step it up on the sex side?
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